1-1 Transformational Coaching For Ex- Boarders
Learn how to reclaim peak energy levels, transform your personal relationships and start to live with purpose and happiness.
My mission is to provide superb 1-1 peak performance coaching with true empathy for my clients, and to help them to regain a sense of clarity, energy, love and focus.
Over the past 16 years I have worked mainly with men aged 25-60 who have been to boarding school and are now struggling in life: depression, anxiety, burn out, relationship issues, trauma, addictions.
My mission is to support healing of these wounds by going into the unconscious and helping to create a compelling future.
I use my own journey through growing up with an alcoholic father, attending boarding school and then having a breakdown while working in the City in London and then breakthrough to support my client into healing, happiness and inner strength.
Peak Performance Coaching looks deeply at your core patterns and beliefs and helps you to release them.
The coaching I do has 2 main parts – healing the past and then creating a new positive future – a happier, healthier and more joyful you.
The first part of transformational coaching focuses mainly on the unconscious, helping you to release deep wounds or traumas so that you can fully heal.
Often in personal development work people skip part one – the releasing of deep wounds. They put a smiley face on it and try to create a new positive future. Without healing the past the unconscious has a habit of sabotaging any new future we are planning. We burn out, and our relationships breakdown.
Rod Boothroyd,
Best Selling Author,
Warrior, Magician, Lover, King
► I have succeeded at the highest level but my relationships and health are a mess – what can I do to get myself back on track?
► How do I overcome my addictions – work, alcohol, smoking, drugs, food, pornography?
► My heart feels shut tight – how do I heal it?
► I am stuck in my life – what do I do?
► I get triggered so easily - what can I do to stop being triggered at the drop of a hat.
► I went to boarding school and feel it has traumatized me – how do I heal this?
► I struggle with anxiety - I have tried many things but nothing seems to work
► My partner tells me that I am emotionally shut down and unavailable – how do I become heart-centred?
► How do I learn to deal with my anger issues?
► I feel overwhelmed and stressed – I have tried many things but I feel it is something deeper. How do I learn to become more peaceful and calm in life?
► How do I overcome my depression?
► I have had many failed relationships and I want to learn how to thrive in intimate relationships.
► How do I become happy? I have been trying so many things but feel no closer.
► I want to get fitter and healthier but have such blocks – can you help me to move through these?
I have been through many challenges – addictions, growing up with an alcoholic, boarding school, depression, attempted suicide, 3 years living as a novice Buddhist monk and have come out the other side.
With that I have a deep sense of compassion and open-heartedness with my clients.
Another way my therapeutic work is different is that you lead the healing of yourself. Some of the practices that I use with clients include EFT Tapping, Matrix Reimprinting and other tools. I guide you with your words and experiences to heal the wounds of the past. You have all you need to heal now – my job is to facilitate that.
I also see that my job is to empower you so that you will have all the tools and practices to become self-reliant and self-empowered. These transformational sessions are a portal to your own empowerment.
Such issues could include life traumas, boarding school syndrome, fears, stress, anxiety or any of the questions listed in the bullet points above.