Heal Your Current Relationship With
A Boarding School Survivor
Learn how to improve communication, have a better understanding of boarding school syndrome and transform your life and move towards happiness
For the other wives out there... Piers has helped lift me out of a negative spiral... the change is profound.
“For the other wives out there... Piers has helped lift me out of a negative spiral - he helped me to understand myself better and the change is profound.
I am ready to face problems now.
Healing techniques are offered in the most gentle and individualised way, I was able to make peace with many aspects of myself and regain a lost sense of hope.
Thank you Piers.”
Wife of an ex-boarder, London
My Mission & Values
My mission is to provide superb 1-1 transformational coaching with true empathy for my clients. I also look at helping them to heal their current relationship and gain a better understanding of their ex-boarding school partner. By doing this my coaching helps my clients to re-awaken to happiness.
Over the past 15 years I have worked mainly with men aged 25-60 who have been to boarding school and are now struggling in life: depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, addictions.
Over the past year I have also started to work with partners of ex-boarders. I noticed that often husbands and wives would feel powerless because their partner would not look at any of their issues.
So I began to coach those married to boarding school survivors in order to help them not only understand their partners better but to also empower themselves to heal the wounds of their past. My mission in working with partners of ex-boarders is very similar. And that is to support healing of these wounds by going into the unconscious and helping to create a compelling future.
I use my own journey of attending boarding school, having a breakdown and then a breakthrough and the work that I have done with my wife of 13 years to support my clients into healing, happiness and inner strength.
How I approach each client session:
My job is to remind you of that brilliance.
Piers has such a heart centred approach that you know he genuinely cares...
“I highly recommend working with Piers.
"Piers has such a heart centred approach that you know he genuinely cares and you feel safe to tackle big stuff in the safe and sacred container he creates.
"It is powerful and empowering work that he does, ultimately giving you a tool kit to take with you to continue working on your stuff and making measurable changes (often in surprisingly quick time) on what is a life’s journey.”
Jamie, UK
What Is Transformational Coaching?
The Unconscious
Vision
I'm delighted with the results we've achieved in such a short space of time. I highly recommend Piers as a practitioner...
He moves carefully with the client through the sensitive areas of emotional wounding, using his skillful approach to heal, repair and (my words) "reprogram" memories from the past so that they have no hold over one's thoughts, feelings and behaviour in the present day.
I worked remotely with Piers via Zoom and I'm delighted with the results we've achieved in such a short space of time. I highly recommend Piers as a practitioner”
Author, Warrior, Magician, Lover, King
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Are you exploring one or more of these questions?
► I feel so frustrated by my partner...
► I feel like I can't get close to them...
► His heart feels shut tight – what can I do?
► I am stuck in my relationship – what do I do?
► I get triggered so easily - what can I do to stop being triggered at the drop of a hat.
► My partner went to boarding school and I feel that it has traumatized them – what do I do?
► My partner is addicted to work - they prioritize everything over me - I have tried many things but nothing seems to work
► My partner tells me that it is my issue not his. I am too sensitive, demanding, I ask too much of them...
► How do I learn to deal with my anger issues?
► I feel overwhelmed and stressed – I have tried many things but I feel it is something deeper. How do I learn to become more peaceful and calm in life?
► How do I overcome my depression?
► I have had many failed relationships and I want to learn how to thrive in intimate relationships.
► How do I become happy? I have been trying so many things but feel no closer.
► I want to get fitter and healthier but have such blocks – can you help me to move through these?
How I’m Different
The coaching you will receive is very heart-centred and intuitive.
I have been through many challenges – addictions, growing up with an alcoholic, boarding school, depression, attempted suicide, 3 years living as a novice Buddhist monk, and 14 years with my most amazing teacher, my wife, Michelle.
With that I have a deep sense of compassion and open-heartedness with my clients.
Another way my therapeutic work is different is that you lead the healing of yourself. Some of the practices that I use with clients include EFT Tapping, Matrix Reimprinting and other tools. I guide you with your words and experiences to heal the wounds of the past. You have all you need to heal now – my job is to facilitate that.
I also see that my job is to empower you so that you will have all the tools and practices to become self-reliant and self-empowered. These transformational sessions are a portal to your own empowerment.
Working with Piers has helped me to rediscover parts of me that I had denied and suppressed for far too long....
“Working with Piers has helped me to rediscover parts of me that I had denied and suppressed for far too long.
His calm, gentle and welcoming character was an invitation to open up and give myself permission to let go of some limiting and unhelpful ways of thinking and being, so that I now find it easier to tell myself that, as Piers puts it, “All of me is welcome.
"The fact that Piers has had his own challenges with some issues that are similar to my own gave me confidence that I was safe and in good hands. I felt at peace and supported when working with Piers and had a profound sense that Piers wanted nothing but to help me heal some old wounds. I can’t put it better than to say that he is a good man who is trying to help other men.”
JH, CEO, France/ UK
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What's holding you back?
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Such issues could include relationship issues, life traumas, depression, understanding boarding school syndrome, fears, stress, anxiety or any of the questions listed in the bullet points above.
A different approach
Grow your life
I’m happy to be able to offer
my 1 -1 coaching for $625/month (£450/ month).
► Five 50-minute private 1-1 coaching sessions with me monthly.
► There is no requirement for how many months you stay on my coaching.
“ Working with Piers during the 1-1 sessions has been a revelation of significant
proportions. His approach has provided me with the tools to dig deep and live a richer and
much more meaningful life. I can absolutely recommend Piers Cross who has also guided
me on my quest to meet many of my current goals and those in the future.
Happiness is no longer just a dream but a daily occurrence.”
M.I. UK
